7. FIGHTING BACK MIGHT BE NECESSARY
7.抵抗是必要的
Lastly, you need to teach your children to be destructive in order to draw attention.
最后，你需要教你的孩子为了吸引他人注意而破坏一些东西。
If a stranger tries to take them, tell them that all manners are out of the window - and they are allowed to hit, scream and make a scene in order to attract attention.
如果一个陌生人试图带走他们，告诉他们这时候所有的礼仪都不需要了，他们可以打别人、尖叫、当众大吵大闹来吸引注意。
Natasha Daniels at Anxious Toddlers admits the 'chances are small' of your child being in such a perilous situation, but insists it's important to make sure they are alert.
Anxious Toddlers的娜塔莎-丹尼尔斯承认你的孩子置于此种危险的情况“几率很小”，但是她坚称确保孩子们能保持机警是很重要的。
She writes: 'What I can teach my kids in 30 minutes might make the difference between life and death. And for that – it’s worth it.'
她写道：“在30分钟内我教给我孩子的东西可能会改变生死。因此，这很值得。”
A spokesman for child protection charity NSPCC said: ‘Going out without a parent is a natural step for children to take when the time is right, so it’s crucial they feel prepared and confident.
英国全国防止虐待儿童学会(NSPCC)的发言人称：“时机成熟时，没有家长陪同出门对于孩子来说是一个自然的步骤。所以他们感觉准备好了并且有自信是很重要的。”
'Whilst it’s true that most child abuse is committed by someone they know and although abuse by strangers is very rare, the risk is still there.
“尽管大多儿童虐待是孩子的亲近之人作为，而陌生人的虐待十分少见，但危险还是存在的。”
'When giving advice parents should not unnecessarily frighten a child. They should put the potential dangers in perspective otherwise it could inadvertently cause a child to feel anxious.
“在给孩子建议的时候，家长不要去吓孩子。他们应该如实地描述潜在的危险，不然会在无意中让孩子感到焦虑。”
'It can be a little bit daunting to let them take their first steps outside and alone, which is why we’ve developed a checklist to help parents prepare their children.' “让孩子们踏出独自外出的第一步会有点艰难，这就是为什么我们列出了一张清单来帮助家长指导孩子。”
